90% of the Hate Came From Women
Last summer, the world watched a couple get caught in an embrace on the Coldplay Kiss Cam at Gillette Stadium. Chris Martin made an offhand comment about them either being shy or having an affair — and within hours, the internet had identified Kristin Cabot and Andy Byron, dismantled their professional reputations, and turned a two-second moment into a months-long scandal.
Do Happy People Cheat? I Don't Think So.
There's a statistic that gets thrown around constantly in the infidelity space. A 2020 study published in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy found that 56% of men and 34% of women who cheat rate their marriages as "happy" or "very happy." You've probably seen it. It shows up in therapy blogs, Reddit threads, podcasts, news articles — everywhere. And it's used to push this narrative that cheating is random, unpredictable, and completely unrelated to the state of the relationship. That it could happen to anyone, even in a good marriage.
Why Choosing Happiness After an Affair is Powerful
I actively choose happiness and joy every single day. And the more I share that publicly, the more it seems to confuse people.
The other day, a woman I connected with on LinkedIn asked how my year was going. I told her it's been amazing. Her response? "Amazing. That's a strong word." And I thought — yeah, it is. And I chose it on purpose.
What It Actually Feels Like to Wait for a Married Man to Leave
“Waiting for a married man to leave” is one of the most searched phrases in the affair and relationship space. And when you actually look at what comes up, it’s bleak.
I Shared My Biggest Secret With the World
You think once you say the hard part out loud — the part you've carried around for years, the part that makes people uncomfortable — you'll feel free.
I Never Called Him
When Calling Your Boyfriend Isn’t Normal. And Why That is Totally Insane.
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Yes. No. Maybe. Let's Discuss.
Why We Cheat - The Psychology of Infidelity
Why We Cheat - The Psychology of Infidelity - It doesn’t start with intention. It starts with connection.
A Website That Facilitates Affairs
A Website That Facilitates Affairs - How Ashley Madison has 90M Members
