Work With Me
Who I Am Here For
For The Women Rewriting Their Own Story
You don't need permission to choose yourself. You don't need to wait until you've "figured it out." You don't need to keep performing a version of your life that hasn't fit you in years.
I work with women who are done waiting — for the right time, the right circumstances, the version of themselves they've been promising they'd become. Whether you're ending an affair, navigating divorce, or stuck in a life that stopped feeling like yours a while ago — this is the space where you take your power back.
This isn't therapy. It's not a pity party. It's not another program telling you what's wrong with you. This is the work of choosing yourself — unapologetically and with a clear plan for what comes next.
Who I Work With
If any of these sound like where you are right now, we should talk:
The other woman ending or recovering from an affair, ready to stop waiting to be chosen
Freshly divorced or separated, rebuilding your identity outside of a relationship that defined you for years
Carrying shame, guilt, or judgment from choices you've made and ready to lay it down
Craving clarity on what you actually want — and tired of pretending the answer doesn't matter
You don't need to be in crisis. You just need to be ready.
How We Work Together
Each coaching container follows a three-phase framework. We don't skip steps and we don't rush the process. Three months gives you enough time to actually shift — not just talk about it.
Phase 1: Reveal (Month 1)
We start with truth. What's actually running the show — the shame, the people-pleasing, the waiting to be chosen, the patterns you've been calling personality. We map where you are now so we can build from something real.
Phase 2: Reclaim (Month 2)
This is where we rebuild. We rewrite the internal narratives that have kept you small. We work on boundaries, decision-making, and how you show up for yourself when nobody's watching. This is the "I value myself" phase — and it's where the change actually happens.
Phase 3: Rise (Month 3)
We create your forward plan. Who you're becoming, what you're building, and how you're moving through the world from here. Whether that's a life pivot, a relationship reset, or simply learning to wake up excited about your own life — we design it together.
Coaching Packages
SCARLET
What's included:
3-month coaching container
6 1:1 coaching calls (2 per month, 45 minutes each)
Voxer access Monday through Friday, 48-hour response window
Custom Mindset Playbook
Prompts and homework between sessions
Investment: $2,500
MAROON
Everything in SCARLET, plus:
9 1:1 coaching calls (3 per month, 60 minutes each instead of 45)
Voxer access 7 days a week, 24-hour response window
Comped entry into The Scarlet Edit group program (launching soon)
Priority access to future programs
30 days of post-container Voxer support after your 3 months end
Investment: $4,200
Why This Coaching Is Different
Most coaching after infidelity comes from one of two places — therapists working within the limits of clinical practice, or coaches teaching frameworks they've studied but never lived. Both have their place. Neither is what I do.
I was the other woman for five years. I've been divorced. I host the only podcast in the infidelity space speaking from the other woman's perspective without shame or apology — and that's the lens I bring to coaching. You're not getting a script. You're not getting a redemption arc. You're getting someone who actually knows what it feels like inside these situations and won't make you perform anything to be supported through them.
You don't need to explain yourself to me. You don't need to soften the truth. You don't need to make your story easier for me to hear. Whatever brought you here, I've either been there or I've talked to dozens of women who have.
Speaking 🎤
I speak on infidelity, the other woman experience, choosing yourself, and what happens when women stop performing the version of their lives they were handed. If you're booking a panel, podcast, retreat, conference, or media segment — I'd love to hear about it.
Media Work 📸
I'm available for interviews, expert commentary, and editorial features on infidelity, divorce, modern relationships, and women rewriting their own stories. Press kit available on request.
Fill out the form below to inquire.
Sponsor 🎧
The Scarlet Edit reaches women 30–65 across Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube — a highly engaged audience showing up for honest conversations about the realest parts of their lives. If your brand fits that audience, let's talk.
Frequently Asked Questions
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No. Most of my clients land somewhere in the categories above, but coaching works for any woman who's ready to stop letting her circumstances run her life. If you're not sure if it's a fit, that's what the discovery call is for.
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No. I'm a coach, not a licensed therapist. Coaching is forward-focused — we work on where you are, where you want to go, and how to close the gap. If you're navigating active trauma or mental health concerns, therapy is the right starting point and I'm happy to recommend resources.
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Most coaches in this space focus on a single moment — the divorce, the discovery, the recovery. I focus on the whole woman. Your relationships are part of the story, but they're not the whole story. What we do together focuses on you, not one chapter of your story.
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15 minutes on a video call. I ask what brought you here. You ask whatever you need to ask. We figure out together if it's a fit. No pitch, no pressure. If it's not the right time or the right match, I'll tell you.
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The framework is built on three months because real change takes time. If you're looking for something shorter, the discovery call is still the right starting point — we can talk about whether it's a timing question or a different kind of support you actually need.
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We figure that out on the discovery call. SCARLET is the foundation. MAROON is for the woman who wants more access & more support. Most clients self-select once we talk through what their life actually looks like.
Ready to Start?
Book a 15-minute discovery call. Tell me where you are. I'll tell you what I think.