Listener Questions: What I'd Do Differently, How I Date Now, and What I'd Tell the Other Woman
I asked my Instagram followers what they wanted me to talk about that I hadn't covered yet, and the questions that came in were so good I built a whole episode around five of them. This is what happens when you ask a community of women who've been through it what they actually want to know — they don't ask softballs.
So I'm going to walk through the five I picked and what I said in the episode, because some of these answers I had genuinely never said out loud before.
Why Choosing Happiness After an Affair is Powerful
I actively choose happiness and joy every single day. And the more I share that publicly, the more it seems to confuse people.
The other day, a woman I connected with on LinkedIn asked how my year was going. I told her it's been amazing. Her response? "Amazing. That's a strong word." And I thought — yeah, it is. And I chose it on purpose.
What It Actually Feels Like to Wait for a Married Man to Leave
“Waiting for a married man to leave” is one of the most searched phrases in the affair and relationship space. And when you actually look at what comes up, it’s bleak.
I Shared My Biggest Secret With the World
You think once you say the hard part out loud — the part you've carried around for years, the part that makes people uncomfortable — you'll feel free.
I Had an Affair
I Had an Affair - How It Feels to Tell the World You Were the Other Woman.
Honest Conversations on Affairs
Honest Conversations on Modern Dating, Emotional Healing and How to Let Go of Shame.
I Was in a 5-Year Affair
I Was in a 5-Year Affair: Here's What It Taught Me About Emotional Intimacy and Healing After Heartbreak.