Should I Stay or Should I Leave? The Question Every Other Woman Asks

If you're the other woman, there's a question that runs on a loop in your head from the moment you wake up: do I stay, or do I go? I know it because I lived it. And this week I sat down with Francesca Zoia, a relationship coach in Toronto who spends her days with women stuck in that exact loop. The conversation landed right on the heels of what I've been talking about lately, the version of a relationship that only ever existed in your head.

Here's what I want you to know before we go any further. Nobody gets to hand you the answer. Not me, not Francesca, not the friend who keeps telling you to walk away. But there are better questions than the one you're asking.