I Had to Walk Away

Ending a Long-Term Affair and the Pain of Being the Other Woman

What happens when someone becomes part of every corner of your life, but you remain invisible in theirs?

In this week’s episode of The Scarlet Edit, I talk about what it means to be the other woman in a long-term relationship. One where he met my parents, celebrated holidays with my family, and showed up in photos with my closest friends—while I never met a single person from his world.

I talk through:

• The heartbreak of ending something that no one really knew existed

• The grief of secret relationships and how it lingers differently

• How society still judges women differently when it comes to infidelity

• The complexity of trust, power, and silence in emotionally intimate affairs

This episode is about more than just walking away. It’s about what happens when you finally do.

If you’ve ever had to let go of something that shaped you in private—without the validation or closure others take for granted—this one’s for you.

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